Dear Rowena, 27
Believe it or not things do come together for you. You will wake up one morning soon and feel tired of being tired. You will make a phone call to your mother and say exactly that. You will go home for an entire month and catch up on sleep and home cooking. You will have long chats with your mother as you reflect on everything you thought you would be and everything you still could be. You will then return to your flat and implement the small changes you spoke of to your mother. No one can be an overnight success- small changes work towards small improvements.